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<h1 class="forum-title" style="color: #CA4949;">Blue Eyes Blonde Hair</h1>
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<h3><strong>fingers crossed</strong></h3>
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<p><em>Posted 3 years ago</em></p>
<p>This is a poem that I wrote to my daughter when my hope was non existent, I am posting it here because it was something that I did for myself although he subject was my poorly daughter, I know that I am not a poet, and please forgive my ndulgence but it helped me, maybe it will help you, or maybe you will write something just to take your mind away for a minute. It was a poem that I wrote to my daughter as she walked away from the car back into the unit after a weekend at home. I
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<br/>Blue Eyes, blonde Hair
<br/>Frightened blue eyes and thinning blonde hair
<br/>Lying blue eyes
<br/>Terrified blue eyes and lost blue eyes
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<br/>A frail frame that only last year could lift me
<br/>Thin legs, larks legs,
<br/>Thin foal legs that I am afraid might snap
<br/>Thin legs with prominent veins
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<br/>The safe place that you have sought is not safe, it is cold,
<br/>Your safe haven that has numbed your feelings
<br/>will try to kill you if it can
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<br/>From a place of confused and obstinate abstinence you have to fight
<br/>for what all of your life up until now has been yours
<br/>In your criss cross upside down thinking you have to take hold,
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<br/>You have to put your thin finger up to your dry lips and whisper 'shush' to your fears
<br/>Shine the bright light if truth on the cold silent skulking fears,
<br/>Take steady unfaltering steps back to your life
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<br/>I wrote this in 2012 and now in 2017 we are in so much better a place that light at the end of the tunnel was there.
<br/>hope it helps
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<h3><strong>mummaB</strong></h3>
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<p><em>Posted 2 years ago</em></p>
<p>Thank you for sharing this poem it is helpful to me</p>
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